Respectful condolence messages for sympathy cards, texts and coworkers, from short notes to longer words of comfort. Find the right thing to say when someone has lost a loved one.
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What to say
A short, sincere message is enough: acknowledge the loss, express sympathy and, if you can, offer specific help. Sharing a kind memory of the person who died can mean a great deal.
Avoid phrases like 'everything happens for a reason' or 'I know how you feel', and don't ask about the cause of death.
Text or card?
A text is fine for a quick first message, especially to a friend. A handwritten card is still the most respectful choice for coworkers, neighbors and extended family.
FAQ
What if I didn't know the person who died?+
Focus on the person who's grieving: 'I'm so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family.'
Should I expect a reply?+
No. Adding 'no need to reply' takes the pressure off someone who is grieving.